WORD OF WISDOM
Forgiveness Helps Us Respond With Peace
Main Scripture — Romans 12:18–19 (KJV, excerpt)
“If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men. Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves.”
Dear ORADI Student,
Perhaps someone embarrassed you in a group chat, spoke harshly to you at work or shared something you told them in confidence. When you feel exposed or disrespected, it is easy to reach for a reply that will hurt them back.
Paul asks us to do what we can to live peaceably and to leave vengeance with God. Forgiveness matters because it gives us room to choose how we respond, even while the hurt is still fresh. You can speak honestly about what happened, ask for support or set a boundary without using your words to punish someone.
Today, if you are tempted to send a message in anger, put your phone down for a moment and pray. When you return to it, ask yourself what needs to be said. A calm, direct sentence may be enough. If you need more time, give yourself permission to respond later.
You can take the hurt seriously and still choose words that make room for peace.
Today’s Reflection
Where am I tempted to hurt someone back, and what would a truthful, peaceful response sound like?
Let Us Pray
Heavenly Father, You know how quickly I can react when I feel hurt. Give me self-control to pause, courage to speak truthfully and wisdom to know when to step away. Help me entrust justice to You and do what I can to live peaceably. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Today’s Affirmation
With God’s help, I can pause when I am hurt, speak with care and choose a response that honours Him.
Pastor Hazel Mushonga
Founder, Tech Savvy International Foundation
ORADI — Smart Skills. Transforming Africa.
